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Uwurongowe ubuzima bwose Intangamarara

Iyerekwa ry'Imana ku bw'ubugeni

Imana yashinze ubugeni bw’umugabo n’umugore nk’ishimikiro ry’umuryango.

Ubugeni bwa Mike na Marilyn Phillipps bwari buteye akaga cane ku buryo umujanama wese babona yababwira ko ukwahukana ari co kintu conyene cobafasha. Yamara Yezu yari afise umugambi mwiza kuruta! Umukama yarakiza urugo rwabo, abaha n’inyigisho ubu twita Urugo rw’Ubuzima. Kandi, naho mu myaka iheze iyo nzira yahinduye bamwebamwe mu burebure no mu vyo irimwo, ingingo ngenderwako zitanga ubuzima yabahaye mu 1983 ntizigeze zihinduka. Barazima kandi barafise ububasha muri iki gihe nk’igihe uwo mugwi wa mbere w’ababiranye indwi wahurira mu nzu maze bagatangura iyo nzira ya mbere yo gutembera na we. Twarabonye imibano amamiliyoni ihinduka kw’isi yose.

Integuro y’inyigisho yemewe y’
Uburenganzira bwo gukoresha: Mike na Marilyn Phillipps.
ISBN 1-884794-01-7 Yasubiwemwo 2012 Uburenganzira bwose burarindwa. Uruhusha rwanditse rutegerezwa guhabwa n’abasohoye iki gitabu kugira ngo umuntu akoreshe igice ico ari co cose c’iki gitabu ku ntumbero iyo ari yo yose atari ugurongora amashure mpuzamakungu yemerewe 2=1.
Ivyanditswe vyasubiwemwo ikimenyetso (NIV) biva muri Bibiliya Nyeranda, Bibiliya Nshasha.
Uburenganzira bwo gukoresha Bibiliya © 1973, 1978, 1984, Ishirahamwe Mpuzamakungu ry’Ivya Bibiliya. Ikoreshwa n’uruhusha.
Ivyanditswe vyakuwe muri BIBILIYA IKOMEYE, Isezerano rya Kera. Uburenganzira bwo gukoresha © 1962, 1964 na
Ingoro y’Ivyandikano ya Zondervan. Ikoreshwa n’uruhusha.
Ivyanditswe vyakuwe muri BIBILIYA IKOMEYE, Isezerano Rishasha. Uburenganzira bwo gukoresha © 1954, 1958 na
n’ishirahamwe ryitwa Lockman. Ikoreshwa n’uruhusha.
Ivyanditswe vyakuwe muri Bibiliya nshasha. Uburenganzira bw’umuhinguzi © 1979, 1980, 1982, Tomasi
Nelson Inc., Abasohora ibitabu. Ikoreshwa n’uruhusha.

Welcome to Married for Life

Kuva Imana yakiza ubugeni bwacu “budashoboka” ubu hakaba haciye imyaka myinshi, ni icipfuzo c’imitima yacu gusangira n’abandi bubakanye ububasha bwo gukiza no gusubizaho Ijambo ry’Imana. Bibiliya ntirimwo gusa umuti wo gukiza ubugeni bwasenyutse, ni n’isoko y’iyerekwa ry’Imana n’umugambi w’ubugeni bwose. Married for Life iriko irashoboza ababiranye bo mu gihugu cacu cose no kw’isi yose gushikirwa n’iyi nkuru iryoshe cane yerekeye ubugeni. Ubugeni bwari bugenewe n’Imana ko buba ikintu gifise ubuzima, gifise inguvu, c’urukundo n’ugukura biguma bikomera. Dufashijwe n’ubuyobozi bw’Imana, turashobora vy’ukuri kuva “ku buninahazwa tuja ku buninahazwa” mu buzima bwacu turi kumwe nk’umugabo n’umugore. Married for Life ni ugusubira gufata umutima w’Imana ku bantu bayo mu karere isi yatakaje rwose iyerekwa – ubugeni. Ingabo y’ababiranye iriko iraseruka kw’isi yose. Ababiranye bafise iyerekwa ry’Imana mu mitima yabo n’ibirwanisho vyayo mu minwe yabo. Abakundana bazi intsinzi muri Yesu kandi biteguriye kuyisangira n’abandi. Ubugeni buramaze igihe kirekire buterwa. Ubu bariko baracika inguvu zikomeye zo gutera. Ngwino, uvumbure ububasha!

N’imitima ikengurukira Yezu.
Mike na Marilin
Abarongozi bashinze 2=1.

Ugushimira

Turashaka gukoresha aka karyo ko gushimira cane abo bose bafashije mu gushinga ishirahamwe Married for Life. Badufashije kuzigama iyerekwa ry’Imana ku bugeni bufise ukwizera kudahungabana kandi baragize uruhara runini mu kubona iryo yerekwa riranguka. Inkomezi zabo zaramfashije cane. Turashimira cane aba Coaching Couples bose badusangije ubumenyi n’ivyo bahishuriwe kugira ngo twagure kandi tuvyiyumvire cane. Ivyiyumviro vyabo vyatanze urugero rudasanzwe cane rutari gushoboka iyo bataba ari bo. Kandi mu gusozera, turashima umugabo n’umugore wese yagiye canke ubu ariko araca mw’ishure ry’Ububakanye bw’Ubuzima. Umwe wese muri mwebwe ni uwuhambaye cane mu mugwi. Gukura kwawe no guhinduka kwawe muri Yesu ni impembo yacu ihambaye kuruta izindi zose. Ni intererano yanyu mwebwe ubwanyu. Igihe cawe, igishika cawe-urukundo rwawe, n’ubutunzi bwawe, nivyo bidushoboza gushitsa iyerekwa Imana yatanze.
Turabakunda mwese!

Igihe kirageze co gusubira kwubaka uruhome

Nuko baravuga bati: “Reka duhaguruke twubake.”
Hanyuma bagashira amaboko yabo kugira ngo bakore ico gikorwa ciza.” Nehemiya 2:18b.

Iyo usomye igitabu ca Nehemiya muri Bibiliya, ubona inkuru y’umuntu yahamagawe gusubira kwubaka inkuta z’igisagara ca Yeruzalemu – inkuta zari zasenywe ziturirwa n’abansi babo. Ico gikorwa cari giteye ubwoba cane, hafi cari ikintu kidashoboka. Hari benshi barwanya ico gikorwa, benshi batwengera mw’ijigo Nehemiya n’abo yakoranije kugira ngo basubire kwubaka.
Abantu bashirwa iruhande y’uruhome mu miryango, umwe wese agasubira kwubaka igice ciwe kugira ngo igisagara congere kibe gitekanye kandi kirinzwe. Iyo miryango yahora ihanganye n’akaga k’uguterwa n’umwansi. Nkako, igihe uruhome rwari rugeze hagati, batangura gufata ibigwanisho mu kuboko kumwe, ukundi bagakoresha.

Si uko gusa bari biyemeje bimwe bishitse igikorwa co gusubira kwubaka, ahubwo bari biyemeje bimwe bishitse kurwanya umwansi iyo biba ngombwa.
Uyu musi uruhome rw’uburinzi rwatanzwe n’imiryango ikomeye muri buri gisagara cacu rwasambuwe n’igitero c’umwansi. Ugusenyuka kw’ubugeni n’umuryango biciye mu mayaruka yaheze kwatumye tugira ingorane. Ubu umuryango wose utegerezwa kurwana intambara zawo ata n’uburinzi bw’ishirahamwe butangwa n’uruhome rukomeye.
Igihe co gusubira kwubaka urwo ruhome kirageze! Nk’uko vyari biri mu misi ya Nehemiya, Imana iriko irashinga kandi isiga amavuta imiryango kugira ngo iteranirize hamwe no gusubizaho umutekano n’umutekano mu ngo z’igihugu cacu.

Imiryango Ni Urufunguzo
Mu misi ya Nehemiya, imiryango yarahagarara iruhande y’iyindi kugira ngo isubire kwubaka, umwe wese ku kibanza ciwe, akora igikorwa ciwe. Muri iki gihe ni ukuri kandi ko ubugeni n’imiryango ikomeye bizana inkomezi mu gisagara. Imiryango ikomeye itanga uburinzi bw’amashirahamwe ku mashengero yacu n’ibisagara vyacu. Amazu asenyutse kandi ari mu bihome asiga ibisagara vyacu n’amashengero ari muri yo yuguruye kandi ashobora guterwa n’umwansi. Uruhome rugizwe n’imiryango ikomeye ruratanga uburinzi. Ijambo ry’Imana Bibiliya ni ryo ritanga umurongo wo gusubira kwubaka urwo ruhome rukomeye rw’uburinzi. Iyo dukoresheje umugambi w’Imana, Ijambo ryayo, nk’umugambi wacu n’ibikoresho vyayo, ingingo ngenderwako zo mu vyanditswe, twubaka uruzitiro rukomeye, rufise amagara meza rwo gukingira umubano wacu n’urugo rwacu. Abana bacu barafise ahantu heza ho kuba.

Ariko rero, Ijambo ry’Imana riratanga n’imipaka, kandi uko urugero rutanga uburinzi ruduzwa, ni ko n’imipaka ritanga na yo nyene irashirwaho. Benshi muri iki gihe barashaka uburinzi mugabo bakirinda imbibe. Mu vy’ukuri ni igihe umwe wese akora ivyo abona ko ari vyiza mu maso yiwe. Iyo dukora ivyacu bwite, biciye mu bujuju canke mu bushake bwacu, twanka imbibe z’Ijambo ry’Imana, bigatuma n’uburinzi bwaryo butakaza. Ibisagara vyacu ubu vyerekana ukwo kwanka umugambi w’Imana mu gusenyura amazu n’imiryango. Nk’uko Nehemiya yabibonye muri Nehemiya 2:14, ugusambuka ni kwinshi cane ku buryo ahantu kanaka ata kindi kiriho atari ibisigazwa.

TANGURA AHO URI UYU MUSI .
Kumbure urugo rwawe bwite ruri mu bihome muri iki gihe. Kumbure wumva umeze nk’imwe mu mabuye yaturiwe Sanibalati yavuze ko atazokwigera akoreshwa mu kwubaka uruhome rukomeye. [Nehemiya 4:2] Nehemiya ntiyumvirije ijwi ry’umwansi wiwe kandi nawe ntukwiye kwumviriza. Yesu afise imigambi ikomeye kuri wewe kandi ashaka kugusubira kukwubaka mu nkomezi no mu bushobozi. Uko uyobokera umugambi w’Ijambo ry’Imana, ukemera imbibe zayo n’uburinzi bwayo, ubugeni bwawe n’urugo rwawe birashobora guhindurwa n’ububasha bwayo.
Canke kumbure ufise gusa imivyimba mikeyi mu ruhome rwawe, uturere dutoduto tw’ugusenyuka dutangura gusenyuka. Urabona ko bikenewe gukomeza uruhome rwawe no kurukomeza ukoresheje umugambi w’Imana nk’indongozi yawe. Nta gihe ciza co gutangura gusubira kwubaka kiruta igihe ingorane zibanza kumenyekana. Amabuye yawe ntarasha, umugabane wawe wo ku ruhome ntiwarameneka. Guhindura utuntu dutoduto ngaha n’aho bizotuma umubano wanyu ushikama ku Rutare kandi bikomeze uburinzi bw’uruhome rwanyu.
Nimba ubu ufise urugo rukomeye, rushingiye kandi rushingiye kw’Ijambo, urafise vyinshi woha abandi. Inkomezi n’ugushikama kw’igice cawe c’uruhome ni ngirakamaro ku bandi. Ariko rero, kenshi biragoye gufasha abandi kwubaka canke gusubira kwubaka ata co bimaze, nimba utazi neza ingene igice cawe c’uruhome cakomeye cane. Urakeneye kumenya umugambi wakurikiye kugira ngo ushobore kuwubwira abandi. Kumenya ibikoresho vyo mw’Ijambo ry’Imana vyashinze kandi bikomeza umubano wanyu bizokuronsa ubushobozi bwo gufasha abandi gusubira kwubaka no gukomeza ingo zabo n’imibano yabo.

Tora ububasha
Uko urugo rwawe n’urugo rwawe vyoba vyifashe kwose uno musi, urashobora guhezagirwa no gukura mu Mukama biciye mu gutahura no gushira mu ngiro umugambi wiwe w’urugo rwawe n’urugo rwawe.
Nehemiya aremesha abantu ati: “Ntimubatinye. Nimwibuke Uhoraho akomeye kandi ateye ubwoba, murwanire benewanyu, abahungu banyu, abakobwa banyu, abagore banyu n’amazu yanyu” [Nehemiya 4:14]. Kumbure kuva ico gihe si ho uguhamagarwa ku rugamba kwari gukenewe kuruta uko biri uno musi. Ijwi ry’inzumbete rishobora kwumvikana mu gihugu [Nehemiya 4:20] kandi Uhoraho ariko aravuga ati: “Nimusubire kwubaka!”

Ikaze mu Burongowe bw’Ubuzima! Turatahura ko turi mu ngabo Umukama ariko aravyura muri iyi saha kugira ngo asubire kwubaka no gukomeza urugo. Isengesho ryacu ry’ubudasiba kuri wewe ni uko inzu yawe yoba ikibanza c’amahoro ku bababara, n’itara ry’abazimiye mu mwiza. Mukoreshe neza izo ndwi cumi n’ibiri zikurikira—ku bwanyu no ku bw’abandi bakeneye indemesho uko bafata ibibanza vyabo iruhande y’uruhome. Umwe umwe, uko duhuza inzu zikomeye kandi zikomeye muri Kristo, uburinzi n’imipaka y’Imana bizokwerekanwa mu bisagara vyacu no mu mashengero yacu.
Amabuye yawe yaba yaturitse agasenyuka uno musi canke inkuta zawe zasenyutse gatoyi gusa, canke ufise igice gikomeye kandi gikomeye c’uruhome, twese turagukeneye. Muhezagirwe kandi mube umuhezagiro!

IYEREKWA
Turabahaye ikaze mw’ishure ryanyu ry’Uburongozi bw’Ubuzima. Turazi ko uzohezagirwa hano kandi ko urugo rwawe rutazosubira kuba nk’uko rwari!
Igihe Imana yatanga ubwa mbere ubutumwa bw’ubu busuku, bwabuseruye mu iyerekwa ry’amatara amamiliyoni azimvye kw’isi yose. Hariho imwe ku nzu yose, hirya no hino mu mfuruka zose. Imana yavuze ko imwe yose muri izo ntambi zica ibibatsi yari inzu y’abakristo y’ububasha aho amahoro n’ububasha bw’Umukama vyakayangana cane ku buryo imwe yose yari ikibanza c’amazi y’isi y’inyota ibakikuje.

Imana yasezeranye ko izobahagurutsa kw’isi yose. Izo nzu zoba ari ivy’ababiranye bubaha Imana barondera ubugombe bw’Umukama ku bijanye n’ubucuti bwabo bwite bw’umubiri umwe kandi bipfuza gukorera abandi. Bobaye batagira amahane kandi bahawe ububasha bwo gusenya ibihome vy’abansi, bakabohora abandi mw’izina rya Yezu.
Imigwi ikomeye y’umubiri umwe ubu yaratanguye gupfuka isi. Uyu musi ni umusi wawe wo gutangura guhindura inzu yawe ngo ibe ahantu h’amahoro ku babanyi bawe. Mu ndwi cumi n’ibiri zikurikira uzorongorwa na Mpwemu mu vyiyumviro bishasha biteye umunezero vy’ubugeni bwawe.

Muzomenya ico ubucuti nyakuri “bw’umubiri umwe” ari co be n’ingene mwotahura iranguka ry’ubwo mu buzima bwanyu. Uzoronka ubumenyi n’ubukerebutsi, iyo ubishize mu ngiro, bizotuma urugo rwawe rudashobora kubamwo amahane.
Kubiba no kwimbura amahoro, ukunyurwa n’uguhuza bizoba ari ikintu gisanzwe mu buzima bwanyu bwo mu rugo. Uzokwiga kurwana neza intambara yo mu vy’impwemu ku bw’uwo mwubakanye n’abana bawe.
Uzobona ubuzima buhinduwe cane n’Ijambo ry’Imana. Kandi uzomenya ingene wovyara ivyo bitangaza vy’Imana mu buzima bw’abandi.

AGACIRO KACU NKURU

Izo ngingo ngenderwako ni zo ubu busuku bushingiyeko.

Ntibihinduka
Kumenya uburyo n’ingene ubusuku bugenda
Menya neza ivyo ushobora guhanahana n’ivyo udashobora guhanahana .
Fasha abantu kumenya ihamagarwa ryabo
Ni ishingiro ryo gusubira kuvyara

Ivyo dukora vyose bitegerezwa kwerekeza abantu ku Bukama bwa Yezu. Yezu niwe nzira yonyene ijana kuri Data no mu buzima budahera.
Amazu y’ububasha atemba mu bubasha bwa Mpwemu Yera. Ububasha bwa Mpwemu Yera burahindura umwizera kuva imbere, hanyuma bukaja hanze bukaja ku bandi.
Ubugeni ni ubucuti bw’isezerano. Ubucuti bw’ubugeni n’ukwiyemeza ni ukugaragaza ubucuti bw’isezerano ry’Umukama n’Ekleziya yiwe.
Ubukwe hagati y’umugabo n’umugore ni bwo bushingiro bw’umugambi w’Imana ku muryango. Imana yashinze ubugeni mw’itongo rya Edeni n’umugabo n’umugore maze iduha umugambi wayo.
Tubwirizwa guhindura amahanga yose abigishwa. Gutoza abantu bishingiye ku bucuti kandi birimwo ugutoza, gutanga akarorero, no kubazwa ivyo bakoze.
Tubwirizwa kwera imbuto zifise imbuto y’uguvyara. Intumbero yacu si iyo gutuma abandi batwizigira ahubwo ni iyo kubigisha gutera imbere mu bucuti bukomeye n’Umukama no gushikira abandi mw’izina ryiwe.
Iyo ababiranye bubakanye, umuhamagaro wabo n’iherezo ryabo ku giti cabo biravangwa hamwe. Ugukorana kw’umubiri umwe biratuma ababiranye bashobora gukora ibintu vyinshi cane kuruta ivyo boshobora gukora bonyene.
Amazu ni ahantu ho gushikira isi yazimiye. 2=1 amashure ahurira mu mihana ngo atwibutse ko Imana yipfuza gushika mu mihana yacu ivuye mu mihana yacu, amatara akayangana mu mwiza.
Imana ibona imiryango mu ruvyaro. Ingingo dufata uno musi zigira ico zikoze ku miryango y’ejo.
Twebwe turi ingabo. Turakeneye gutemba hamwe nk’umuntu umwe mu kugamburuka amabwirizwa n’ubuyobozi vy’Umutwe wacu Yezu Kristu.

IVYO WOBA WITEGA

Amabwirizwa yo gukoresha neza umwanya wawe muri iri shure:
1. Tuzohura rimwe mu ndwi, tuzomara nk’amasaha abiri canke abiri n’igice. Turagusavye uze ku gihe kandi utegure kuguma igihe cose.

2. Niba ufise ikibazo mu gihe c’inyigisho canke ukabura ijambo, ndagusavye ubishire ahabona maze ubizane mu kiringo co gusobanura mu mpera y’inyigisho. Ndabinginze ntimuciremwo inyigisho.

3. Igihe c’Ibibazo n’Inyishu inyuma y’inyigisho ni ugusobanura ingingo iyo ari yo yose yoba itasobanutse neza canke ijambo wabuze. Si igihe co guharira ku vyo wigishijwe canke co gutanga iciyumviro cawe. Niba utemeranya n’inyigisho, turagusavye ukore Igitabu cawe co Gusaba Ubuzima maze urabe nimba kiguha insiguro kuruta ico gihe. Nimba umaze gukora ivyo muguma mutavuga rumwe, bwira Coaching Couple yawe maze mubasabe guhura na bo.

4. Ivyo bivugwa mu mugwi, biguma mu mugwi. Ndabinginze mwubahe abandi mu kubungabunga ibanga .

5. Nta bashasha bubakanye bashobora gusura canke kwifatanya n’iryo tsinda iyo ivyigwa bimaze gutangura.

6. Ibikoresho vyose bikoreshwa canke bishikirizwa hano bitegerezwa kubanza kwemezwa na 2=1 International. Iri tsinda ntirizokoreshwa n’abagize itsinda nk’ahantu ho gutanga ibitabu canke ibindi bikoresho vyose canke ahantu ho gutora abakozi bo ku rwego rwinshi rwo kwamamaza.

7. Nta bana bakwiye kuba mu makoraniro y’Ububakanye kubera Ubuzima. Ivyo birimwo n’abana bato.

8. Amakoraniro ntashobora kwandikwa mu buryo ubwo ari bwo bwose.

YOUR WORKBOOK
As couples go through the lesson, please note the words that are bolded and underlined in each lesson as they are the key points of the lesson.

UMWIYEMEZO
Intambwe ya mbere mu mpinduka iyo ari yo yose ni ukwiyemeza gushitsa iyo ntumbero. Nimba ufise umutima ukunze wo guhindura mu mubano wawe, turagusavye kwiyemeza kujayo buri ndwi mu kiringo .
y’iri shure ry’Abarongowe ku bw’Ubuzima.

Turabasaba ko ivyo mubiganirako nk’ababiranye kandi nimba ariho mwemera ko Imana ibahamagara, ndasavye mwerekane ko mwiyemeje ku Mana no ku bandi mu kwemera isengesho rikurikira.
Ivyo si umuhango kuri twebwe – ahubwo ni umuhango kuri umwe wese no kuri Data wa twese w’umwiyemezo wanyu wo kurondera ivyiza vyiwe.

Ni umwizigirwa! Ugiye gutangazwa n’ivyo ubona akora.

“Data, Twemera ko utwemera ko turi umwe. Turashaka kumenya mu rugero runini ico ivyo bisobanura kugira ngo tuvumbure ububasha. Turashaka kubaho mu mahoro n’ubumwe dukoresheje ingingo ngenderwako zawe zo mu vyanditswe kugira ngo ivyo bishikeko. Turashaka ko urugo rwacu ruba oasis y’amahoro ku buninahazwa bwawe Twiyemeje uno musi kuronka ivyiza vyawe ku bw’umubano wacu n’urugo rwacu Twebwe. n’ushire ku ruhande ivyiyumviro vyose, ivyiyumviro vyose, n’ubuhinga bwo kwiyumvira dufise ku bijanye n’ubugeni, vyiza canke bibi Turaguha uruhusha rwo gukora mu mitima yacu ivyo dukeneye vyose kugira ngo dukure mu bucuti dufitaniye nawe no hagati yacu.
Twemeranya kandi kwubahiriza uburenganzira bw’abandi bubakanye bari mw’ishure ryacu. Ivyo vyose bizosangira hano tuzobizigama mw’ibanga kandi tuzokwitega ko n’abandi babigira. Turashigikira abandi mu gukura kwabo nk’ababiranye b’umubiri umwe kandi twipfuza ko ata kintu na kimwe cotuma dukura. Twemeranya kandi gusengera abandi bubakanye bo mu mugwi wacu buri ndwi. Mu izina rya Yesu Amen.”

“2=1 ni ubusuku bwo kwigisha kandi nta mpanuro z’umwuga canke z’ubuvuzi zitanga. 2=1 ntiyerekana abakozi bayo canke uburongozi bwo mu gisata nk’abahinga mu vy’ubuvuzi canke mu vy’umutima bashobora guhangana n’ingorane zikomeye zo mu mutima canke zo mu mutwe. 2=1 amashure canke ibikoresho ntibigenewe gusubirira impanuro z’umwuga canke z’uburagiriro.”